The Female Project

Great Expectations & Thanksgivings

I thought I was pregnant … but I AM NOT. I’ve thought I was pregnant many times… but I WASN’T. When will this end. This dream. Hope. Expectation. Wish. Disappointment. Dread. Truth. I cannot get pregnant…. naturally. I know I... Continue Reading →

195 Days Sober

6 months alcohol free has come and gone! This picture, when I saw it, truly symbolized to me the whole process of the Journey that I've been on this past 6 months. Slowing down and taking care of myself and... Continue Reading →

If you had to bet on yourself, would you?

Recently it was asked of me, if I had to bet on mine and my families success, would I? Meaning, would I invest?  Wager? Gamble? Place a bet? Am I in it to win it? Well, many from the outside... Continue Reading →

The Evolution of Saying NO!

Lately, I have been finding that raising my 8-year-old son has become tiring, challenging and simply difficult. I look at him some days and wonder who the heck is he? Why is he acting the way he is acting? Why... Continue Reading →

Truly Broken

I lie here. Broken. But this time I am literally broken. To become whole, sometimes we have to make a choice to break open the old wounds that have been slowing us down. Over the years, I have found it... Continue Reading →

A Not So Perfect Day

  The darkness comes sometimes when I least expect it. Getting ready for work. Cooking dinner. Writing. My eye sight starts to blur, and my peripheral vision disappears. Forcing me to focus on what is right in front of me.... Continue Reading →

Thank you Mom

There are moments in your life that will never leave you.    They will imprint themselves in your memory forever.   The one for me was the night my mother revealed her inner strength and showed me how to rise above... Continue Reading →

Road Trips-Therapy for the Soul

I am a person who loves to escape my life. In my younger days, I was the girl who used to get in the car, pop in a cd, fill up the tank and drive. Destination unknown. The songs were... Continue Reading →


Today I don't feel alone.  Today I know that there are others who suffer.  Who feel pain.  Who are hurting...and don't know why. Or they know why...but are trying to get better. ...Before I began The Female Project, I read... Continue Reading →

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