The Female Project


The Female Project

The Negotiator

Not drinking is the hardest thing I have ever tried to do. I knew that this was going to be a big challenge.  But I was going to do it! No matter how difficult, I was strong enough to overcome this.... Continue Reading →

The Universe Knows

Meeting someone for the first time is universally magical. This is because you never know the impact they will have on your life, or the impact you will have on theirs. Like when you meet your best friend for the... Continue Reading →

The Witness

Have you ever seen someone take their last breath of life? I have. I witnessed my father’s last breath. He died alone, with no one by his side but me, and a minister to guide his departure from this world.... Continue Reading →

Before we met, I knew you…

Before we met, I knew you... I knew what you would look like. How you would smell.  How it would feel to hold you and have you lay in my arms. Before we met, I knew you... We would be... Continue Reading →

The Apology

One day, 9 years ago, someone looked me right in the eyes and had the courage to tell me that if I continued drinking the way I was drinking that the road ahead was not going to be pretty. If I... Continue Reading →

My Girls! Thank You!!

This morning felt like a new dawn. A new beginning. My truth has been put out there for all to see. And once the send button was hit… I waited. And right away ‘ping’ … ‘ping’…. My girls were there! ... Continue Reading →


One of my best and worst traits is that I tell people EVERYTHING. To a fault. And I am usually the one who suffers or feels the consequences of sharing too much. I don’t know why I do it. But... Continue Reading →


My head is splitting with the most excruciating headache I have ever had. Tears spill down my face I’ve failed My stomach turns over and over and my face meets the porcelain bowl…. 3 times Tears spill down my face... Continue Reading →

Being Strong is so Hard..

  Being strong is hard and tiring.  I knew it would be hard, but feeling so tired, I wasn’t expecting that.  I thought I would be full of energy and ready to grab life by the balls and charge head... Continue Reading →

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